Ten Rules for Brides

Illinois, 1915

Here are ten rules for brides, prepared by Mrs. Melville Thomson at the time of her marriage and after a session spent in the Court of Domestic Relations:

1—Let your husband control the home. When you lose respect for his ability you are losing your love for him.

2—Be a good cook. If you can not cook, make it your business to hire a good cook, and see that the meals are served on time.

3—Keep your home attractive and cozy. If you are a musician play and sing for him in the evening.

4—Study his disposition and act accordingly.

5—Do not blame all of the troubles on the man. Many times the woman is to blame. I learned this in Judge Uhlir's court.

6—Learn to trust your husband. Accept his explanation of why he was out late. If you could not trust him you should not have married him.

7—Do not nag. Most men have troubles of their own.

8—Take an interest in his business affairs. If he is a lawyer, talk law to him. If he is in politics, talk that to him.

9—Exercise your right to vote, and he'll be proud of you.

10—Show him little affectionate attentions. Make love to him. Men like that rather than being expected to make all the advances in the show of affection.

—The Pointer, Riverdale, IL, Dec. 17, 1915, page 1.